Parenting Agreement

This tool helps you prepare a clear, child-focused discussion draft for mediation. It isn’t legal advice or a binding agreement. You’ll refine it with your mediator and, if needed, with independent legal advice.

Family & Contact Details

Topics (tick to include, then add details)

Residence & Overnights

Where the child lives on weekdays/weekends; handover locations/times.
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School & Daily Schedule

School runs, after-school activities, homework routine.
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Holidays & Special Days

School holidays, birthdays, religious/cultural dates, travel consent.
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Parent Communication

How parents communicate; tone, channels, response times, emergencies.
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Health & Wellbeing

GP/dentist, medication, consent, mental health, allergies.
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Education

School choice, reports, parent–teacher meetings, special supports.
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Costs & Essentials

Day-to-day costs, uniforms, activities, extraordinary expenses.
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Decision-Making

How major decisions are made; tie-break process.
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Changes, Disputes & Review

How to make changes, manage disputes, and review the plan.
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Custom Topic

Add any other point important to your family.
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By using this builder, you agree this is guidance only. Mediation is voluntary and confidential with standard safeguarding exceptions.